Okay. So we went to my husbands’s mamaws today and my son (just turned 3) is potty training and so he just wears underwear now. Well he does super good. He’ll occasionally pee a couple drops in his underwear when he gets distracted because he doesn’t realize he needs to pee. But as soon as he starts to pee, he immediately stops and runs to the potty. It seriously not even be enough to get on the shorts he’s wearing most of the time so none of it gets anywhere.

Welllll today he had diarrhea a little (which I didn’t realize until we were there). So he accidentally pooped his pants twice while we were there. The first time: he farted, realized it was more and ran to the potty. A tiny drop fell on the floor because he was trying to get his pants down and run. So I immediately get everything cleaned up. My husbands mamaw starts making comments about how we need to put a pull-up on him when we come. So my husband tells her that our son will never learn that way and it’s dropped.

A couple hours later, we are outside in the carport and he has another accident and tells me. Again, literally ONE tiny bit falls out. I pick him up and carry him to the bathroom and get him all cleaned up. While I’m cleaning him, my husband gets the drop out of the carport. His mamaw again starts talking about how we need to put pull-ups on him when we come over. So my husband tells her we’ll just leave, and we did because I was highly irritated at that point.

He seriously never has actual accidents there. He accidentally farted and got a tiny streak in his underwear once, has seriously gotten a couple drops in his underwear twice from being distracted watching tv or playing, missed the potty a little ONCE, and had one big pee accident outside. Every time, I change him clean everything up, Clorox wipe, etc. it is not like he has straight peed in her floor or on her couch or something.

So we’re supposed to have Easter over there, and I seriously do not want to go now. Am I being ridiculous?