Need some Advice please

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I am terrified of losing my virginity because like not only its going to be awkward but also it’s going to hurt and I looked up how can I lose my virginity without it being painful and it said use a lot of lube. Would lube help?? Cause I’m bad and really weak when it comes to pain I can’t cope with any pain it gets to much and I just wanna know would Luba help or anything? To stop it from hurting.