Update to Am I Overthinking?

Hello, again!

I couldn’t figure out how to update the original posting BUT here’s the quick rundown to refresh your memory:

Me & now ex bf met online 9 years ago, dated on and off but never met in person until last month. I moved out here pretty much in hopes of actually being with him (I was already planning on moving with my sister later this year) but things went south rather quickly. He was supposed to come over the other day and waited until late that night to say “sorry I just don’t really want to come over” which obviously hurt me. And then the following day told me he was feeling weird and needed some space because he couldn’t bring himself to come see me and blah blah blah. I gave him space which only lasted a few days because I woke up to this message this morning and my heart hurts but I understand now. That chapter of my life is now closed.