For you ladies that have had a previous vagina births...

What happened to your vagina?

Did it go back to normal?

Don't tell me how your SO told you it went back to normal if your SO is scared of your inside voice.

How long was it open?

Tell me!

Of course this is my first baby and I have a very healthy sex life.

I don't care about all that "O if he loves you it won't matter " blah blah blah

None of that "It will be ok"

It matters to ME !

So none of those coddle tactics. I have tough skin so give it top me raw!