This quote makes me think so many different thoughts. I have been questioning my marriage for a while. It has become so hard, which is expected I know. There are arguments daily. My husband and I are completely opposites on absolutely everything; religion, parenting, family. Basically what started off as a cute “opposites attract” thing, is now just a detriment for us. He has problems with being emotional and vulnerable in our marriage. He has said that he doesn’t even feel connected to our one year old daughter, which is why he doesn’t spend much time with her and I have to do everything myself. He has many selfish ways about him, such as going out to hangout with friends while I’m sitting at the dinner table alone almost every evening and eating by myself. Even when he’s home, he chooses to go by myself and not spend time with us. He said he thought he wanted to be a husband and father, but now that he’s in it, he realized he wasn’t ready for it. I got pregnant at 19, and trust me I wasn’t ready for it either, but I made countless changes to become a wife and mother. I hate that he can’t do the same and says he “can’t change”. I don’t know what to do anymore. Im exhausted. I have had thoughts of us ending our marriage and me moving on. I feel so held back/unsupported in this relationship. I feel confident that better things are in store for me if I left. But i never imagined I would ever get divorced. Especially in my early 20s. I also think about my daughter growing up with divorced parents and how it could affect her. Advice please. Marriage counseling is a no because he has so many walls built up that he’s not willing to take down.