So...I’m 3 days away from scheduled c-section and still not 100% on any names 😬 starting to freak out!!! I had my daughters name picked out at 5mos (granted I had no boy name 100% picked out by her c-section date either LOL). So this is common...

Long story short. I’m picking this name myself as my husband walked out on us, his family, his daughter, his unborn child 🙄 in search of a new life. So I don’t really have him to bounce ideas off now. We both 100% agreed on our daughters name, Vivian so it was easy. But now I need help!!!

-Her name is Vivian Lee (last name 11 letters)

-I need a boy and girl name (gender unknown)

-Middle name will also be Lee (family name)

-Last name still same 11 letters...so not too long of a name either

-I try to stay away from top 10 common names

-I like names popular like 100 years ago, old classic names (like Vivian, it peaked in 1920s)

I have 2 possible contenders but I’m not sold on either of them like I was with Vivian. I’m afraid I’m gonna have the baby and be like ummmmm I dunno?? I’m under so much stress with being pregnant and alone and with a toddler and impending divorce/custody battle and surgery looming. I don’t know if that’s why I can’t make a decision or what 😬

The 2 “maybes” are:

Eliana (I’m not sure though cause it doesn’t meet my old classic name criteria. Seems like one of those newer made up names. I like it though cause it means “god has answered my prayers”. And I’ve always wanted 2 babies. And now with my husband leaving I still feel blessed with 2 babies and they were both meant to be in this world)

Henry (This one meets the old classic criteria but I’m afraid it’s too popular now. I like this meaning as well “ruler of the house” cause if it’s a boy... well he’s literally going to be the man of the house haha.)

I’m kinda going more towards meanings this time. Due to the circumstances. Husband and I had issues since Vivian was born. He was on/off the fence about staying married. Evidently committing was never his thing, as he lied to me and cheated on me for years and I never knew. So this 2nd baby is basically a miracle for even coming due to our troubles and the limited window of time it happened. So I like the spiritual type names or even names that mean strong, brave, etc because I feel this baby had a strong will to be conceived and truly a miracle 💗💙

Any other suggestions??? I’m open to any!!!

Thanks