Unhappy marriage

I am so unhappy in my marriage. We’ve been together for going on three years and we have literally nothing to talk about, he doesn’t understand me at all and I have told him time and time again what I need and still he acts oblivious. I’m not perfect in the relationship either, I am going through a lot with anxiety and depression but I need his support and I feel like I’m not getting even an ounce. I feel so alone and misunderstood and I’ve been thinking that he isn’t the one for me, I do love him but I also hate parts of him, like for instance his anger problems, but I am going to have his baby literally any day now and I don’t want to leave him because I do love him and I know we could stay together a be somewhat happy even if we’re not right for each other. I just don’t know what to do. Every time I try to tell him how I feel it ends up a huge argument with him yelling and cussing at me because he doesn’t understand what I’m trying to get across to him. It’s completely exhausting. I just want to feel like my relationship is easy for once, I feel like I shouldn’t have to try this hard to be happy with him but on the other hand I am severely depressed and I honestly don’t know what it is effecting and what is just fucked all on its own.😭