I really need advice... So I met my husband a little over 3 years ago & within 3 weeks we were saying I love you, got engaged 4 weeks later, & married 3 months after that. it was all really fast, but at the time we truly did feel like it was the right decision. Right before I met him I was seeing a guy that I felt really strongly for, but felt like it was never going to progress. When I met my husband I decided to let that go and moved on. About 6 months to a year into our marriage we started having a lot of issues. We weren’t on the same page with when we wanted to have kids and still aren’t on the same page about where we want to live. (We didn’t talk about these things in depth prior to getting married) 🤦🏻‍♀️ My family is very important to me and my dad is sick, so I prefer to live close to family at some point. We now have a 6 month old as well which obviously changes everything. I also just don’t feel genuinely cared for many times. I’ve told him how I feel but I feel nothing ever changes. It seems like we rushed into the marriage and now we’re struggling bc of it.

I still think of the guy I was seeing prior to my husband all the time. I don’t Know why and I know that’s terrible. He reached out a few times and has said “I’ll always be his girl.” Me and my husband both don’t agree with divorce and now with a baby, it isn’t just about us. I don’t want to keep thinking about this other guy and I wish my marriage could work and be happy, but it seems like it rarely is. I don’t know what to do anymore. 😭💔