3 week old and husband

I am sooo frustrated, my almost 3 week old daughter won’t sleep in her bassinet most nights and I’m okay with that. The thing that drives me crazy is that my husband is fast asleep beside me and doesn’t offer to hold the baby on his chest, I brought her up last night after a 3 am feed and woke him up and ask for him to put her to sleep so I could pee and pump and 2 seconds later he’s downstairs putting her in the swing. He’s great during the day when I ask him to feed her or to take her but I shouldn’t have to ask. He’s constantly saying we’re a team we’re going to get through this etc. But I’m loosing my mind.

I feel much better being able to get that out!