Okay.. so I’m really confused.. my boyfriend and I have been together 3 years, and at first, we had sex like normal. But I started to develop anxiety over becoming pregnant and I didn’t want sex anymore. So we barely did anything. A few weeks ago we got in a huge fight because he told me he had been seriously sexually frustrated and didn’t know what to do. He admitted that his mind started to wander and think about other women in a sexual way. He never acted on it, but he thought of sexual acts with other women. I want to work on us, but I’m really hurt that he had those thoughts.. should we move past it? Is that to be expected if we weren’t being intimate with each other? Should I be THIS hurt? Someone please help