Sorry to be a downer, just feel alone! Does anyone else have fears/anxiety over telling people or losing their babe??

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First pregnancy after miscarriage and I feel like it will never actually happen even though I’m 17weeks and so far everything’s been “fine” 😞

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After miscarriage I think you're always paranoid! I'm in the same boat - 17 weeks and normal pregnancy, but because I miscarried last year I feel like I'm just waiting for something bad to happen instead of just enjoying the process. It's terrible. Whereas with my son I had a carefree pregnancy and no thoughts of anything bad happening! Having a miscarriage permanently fucks you up in the head a little bit I think lol 😉

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I’ve never had a miscarriage and this is my second baby and I still worry. I guess the worry is what we deal with as mamas 😢

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I try not to focus on my worries. If I think about that sort of stuff then it's easy to get anxious.

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Aw I’m sorry but you’re not alone! Although it’s my first pregnancy and I’m doing ok so far, I already had 2 weird dreams that I lost my baby :((( I was soooo sad waking up to those dreams. I think part of me is still very anxious even I’m already 18 weeks along. Hang in there mama ❤️

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Absolutely. I announced too early my first pregnancy and didn’t tell everyone that I miscarried so everyone individually would ask me how it’s going and I had to relive telling them the unfortunate news. This time around I waited till 16 weeks but still concerned.

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Yes. 5th pregnancy, one living son.

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I've had 4mc and a stillbirth. Have 1 living child, currently 20+3. It's never easy after a loss. Just think of each day that passes as a tiny victory and a small milestone.

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Omg I’m the same way!!!!! 17 weeks after a miscarriage I fear it ALL the time !!! Your not alone at all!

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You’re not a downer. 100%. I have generalized anxiety and was taking medication before I got pregnant. I stopped when I tested positive but it’s definitely hard. I get SO anxious sometimes it becomes unbearable. Most times it’s manageable. It’s a hard and scary thing to grow a human (especially with a history of loss and infertility!)

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In a way. I didn’t have a miscarriage, my son died at 6 weeks due to sids and I’ve been having anxiety attacks over having this baby. It’s just nerve wrecking because I’m your mind you think of what has happened, and it doesn’t leave your mind. So it sucks a lot! I’ve heard the anxiety slowly goes away with time so let’s hope!

Sorry to be a downer, just feel alone! Does anyone else have fears/anxiety over telling people or losing their babe??

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