RANT/ADVICE

Mommas!

How do you deal with your SO’sside of the family who hates you and always mistreats you?

My fiancé never has taken my side on anything or sees anything wrong.

His family constantly makes me feel bad and talks bad about me.

His mom and dad cussed me out and we’re screaming at me (nov. 2018) because I told them he should be grateful Were able to buy food for them constantly. (He flipped because I forgot BUTTER!) both his parents always find ways to make me feel horrible.

His dad even said I was trapping him to stay with me when we told him I was pregnant. (We planned our baby, and had two miscarriages.)

He made me feel bad because I couldn’t breast feed.

His mom always acts like she’s innocent until my fiancé isn’t around. When I was 2 weeks PP she called me fat. And always tells me what I should be doing with my son.

His sister thinks she’s the most tough and better than everyone because she’s a cop. (I have nothing against law enforcement ) she makes me feel bad because I have PPD. She says that “that’s life” but she lived with her mom and dad until she was 25 with TWO kids whom she never took care of.

She always tries to put me down and tells my fiancé “what? Is she going to let you go or what?” And acts like I make him stay home with me and our 1 month son.

She gets into our business constantly and judges me and how our relationship works.

She never takes care of her two kids and always leaves them with her mom and goes and ALWAYS drinks.

All of his family drinks like it’s water, I swear! They think it’s normal.

Both his parents and sister came into the room 30 minutes after I gave birth (natural at birthing center) without MY permission. His parents made me feel bad when I asked for some privacy while I tried to breastfeed.

He doesn’t seem like anything is wrong after I constantly try to explain. I’ve tried everything from talking, pouring my heart out, and even told him we should end things.

Sorry if I rambled and didn’t make sense. I’m just so upset and have no idea what to do anymore!