I don’t know what I should do... 💔

I’ve been married going on 3 years & we have a 7 month old. We met and got married fairly quickly and have had issues off and on since soon after really. Overall I just don’t feel valued or appreciated. We’ve gone to counseling, he knows how I feel. We know each other’s “love languages” and it’s Iike he refuses to do mine. I truly try my best to take care of him and support him though I know I fall short sometimes. I just feel like I’m never good enough for him. He Iikes things a certain way and he knows that and works on letting things go but I constantly feel like if I’m not a certain way I won’t be loved. He says he never intends to make me feel that way but I do. There’s no “romance” to me and it makes me sad. We still have sex, but not at all like we once did. All I ask for is the little things.. flowers even cheap ones.. tell me you still think beautiful at times.. I don’t want much. I’m just so tired... I don’t know how much more I can try. I want my family to stay together & I don’t really believe in divorce, but I don’t know what to do anymore... 😢