My friend hosted a kickback (lil get together) a month ago and she invited me and my boyfriend I had met my boyfriend through her so she was cool with him too. And around midnight I went to sleep cuz I was on the couch with my bf spooning me and he was dozing off too. The next morning I seen a lot of the people were gone including my bf . My friends sister told me he dipped out at 6am (it was around 7:30) and that he was still up when they went to their rooms . I’m like really ? I’m like did he get up ? They were like yea you fell asleep and he continued to party . I called him and it went straight to voicemail . So maybe 15 min later he came in the house with breakfast for everyone and a small bag from Walmart that he took to my friend in her room. He spent a lil min in there and when he finally came out I asked him what that was about and he’s like just something she wanted him to pick up . I’m like ok . Didn’t think anything of it .

So this morning I wake up to a txt from my friend apologizing saying she hooked up with my bf at the party and she’s sorry and sent this screenshot and that he picked up plan b for her in the morning. I asked why she just now telling me but no reply and found out my number blocked . So I wake my bf up and ask him about it he says the message is fake so I asked him what he bought her the next day in the bag and he says he don’t remember. Then said oh some flea medicine for her dog . He gave me a kiss and reassured me nothing happened between them.

He’s gone to work now I asked her sister and she said promise this won’t come back to her I’m like sure . And she says they hooked up a year before I met him and she kissed him a few weeks before I met him and they almost had sex but he stopped her so they kinda have a love hate relationship. I’ve been with my bf almost a year now . Our anniversary may 24. Idk what to do . How do I ask him about it or don’t? Why would she just now tell me this? I’ve been crying all morning . I’m so hurt . I would’ve never dated him if I knew .

UPDATE:

He left work early to talk to me . He admits the text were real but he had hit her up cuz he heard noise coming from the direction of her room and everyone was sleep . While they smoked she talked about she felt some type of way he was on me all night when it should’ve been her and when she introduced us she didn’t think we’d click . Etc . He promises nothing happened but he did get the plan b because he didn’t remember what happened but he knows he dozed off for an hour in her room . And he says as for before it was nothing . She didn’t want him but they had sex as 2 grown adults needing it .

Also he says he lied because of how it looked. Him sneaking off to her room then bringing plan b in the morning. And he knew I’d ask if it’s happened before and he’d have to lie about that too.