Miscarriage vs abortion

Ashley

So I recently lost my baby on march 4th it was the worst day of my life I was 5 weeks and my heart was broken my friend was 15 weeks when she had an abortion and now she keeps telling me she understands my pain she lost her baby too but I just get so mad because it isn’t the same.. I didn’t decided to get rid of my baby 😢 she willingly did it just so she can still party with her baby daddy and I get so mad when ever she talks to me about it. The other day she called me crying saying why did that have to happen her I hung up and just cried in my hubbys arms. That’s so wrong to do to someone who didn’t have any say in losing there baby..

Am I wrong for being upset??