Help me

Im about 12 and a half weeks pregnant and it has been nothing to stressful and miserable. Ive been sick the whole time but really thats not the issue. My boyfriends mother has been really stressful. She wants to be included in EVERYTHING.

My mother has been taking me to ultrasound appointments bc my boyfriends work wont let him off. I honestly love my mom coming. My boyfriens mom wants to be at every appointment and complains and whines and says she feels unincluded when we go without her.

We have tried to include her and invite her to things and she wont show up then complains that she isnt included.

Now my mother has hurt feelings bc ive been spending time with his mom. Would someone just kill me. Im nothing but stressed and crying non stop. My boyfriend just gets angry when i try to vent.