First time pains? Or nah?

Question

I’m a virgin and today I had someone finger me for the first time. It REALLY hurt though and I started feeling sick after a while. Like I had to get him to stop because it just hurt. Is that normal? I thought sex was supposed to be pleasurable and not painful?

Answer

Sounds like you need to relax and have a little more foreplay before anything enters you. Make sure your wet or use lube. Do you ever masturbate? It can help to get used to doing it on your own. 
Your first time doesn’t have to hurt but women aren’t really educated widely in society on how to make it not hurt. Mine didn’t hurt but it was a little uncomfortable at first but that’s because I wasn’t turned on enough. I was way too nervous.

Answer

First few times doing anything sexual aren’t that great in my experience. Personally for me my first time was back in high school and it didn’t hurt, I just felt nothing. 🤷🏻‍♀️ He wasn’t small either. It seems like it took a few times before it actually started getting pleasurable.

First time pains? Or nah?

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