Is it wrong to date someone you used to babysit for..?

Question

So I used to babysit for this dad, his wife died 2 years ago so his kids got very attached to me very fast.. I always thought he was kinda cute.. we are only 10.5 years apart (I’m 19, he’s 30). I had asked to come visit his kids one day, and one thing led to another.. feelings were caught on both sides.. like part of me knows it’s wrong, but it feels so right..

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If its meant to be, let it be. You're very young so don't get too serious too fast. Don't grow up too fast and make sure you know what you're getting into. Take things slow and enjoy life. Also, if he has kids, are you going to be ready to be a mother figure to them? Again, don't grow too fast and not enjoy your youth for the relationship.

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I mean it’s kinda weird but at least he didn’t just leave his wife for you I guess

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Kind of creepy that a grown man is attracted to his teenage babysitter but I mean...you’re over the legal age so you do you. Just be careful cause being in a relationship with such a huge age difference can get real predatory & manipulative real fast.

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I could almost definitely have feelings for the dad I babysit for. Don't know why, and I will never do anything about it because he's in a happy marriage with 3 kids, but it's not weird to think that. When you babysit, you become like a mother for the kids. So it's naturally you feel a part of the family, and that you are trying to mentally find your place.

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Love is love

Is it wrong to date someone you used to babysit for..?

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