(Extremely tired excuse typos) As I drove 40 mins away from my apartment to stay in a hotel near the airport, it hit me that this chapter I desperately wanted to end finally did. We are done and 2,000 mile distance is about to lock that in place. Even tho I was miserable I still wore a ring, I still planned on marrying this guy and planned on starting a family. For 2 years I wasn't allowed to live my life. That includes go grocery shopping By myself, see my family, go to work in peace, sleep without him checking on me, etc. We've been split for 3 months and I moved 40 mins away from him but it dawned that even tho I was working on my codependency, he was still close by. He was a safety net. He got back with his ex shortly after us breaking and now it's officially sealed. I'm moving back to my hometown and he can fuck this underage girl all he wants and I never have to see or be near him again. I am so happy!