So lately I’ve been having problems with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. I do not currently work and he works 12 hour shifts and he been working everyday pretty much for the last 2 weeks but normally only works 4 days. Well our biggest fights always come from him playing video games. As soon as he gets home from work he runs to his video games and plays at least 4 hours up to 6 and then right after goes to sleep because he has to go to work. Which wakes up 20 minutes before he has to leave so I only see him for those 20 mins because while he is playing he has headphones and is zoned In to his game and hates when I bother him. He plays every single day and on his days off p,even longer. I been begging him for attention because I feel like he has completely pushed me aside. I feel so alone and like I have nobody to talk to and when I tell him we end up fighting and he claims he don’t want to spend time with me cus all I do is fight ,which I hate to fight ,but me talking to him turns into a fight because he gets so defensive when I tell him he plays too much. He claims since he works he should be able to do the things he enjoys. I told him I don’t care that he plays but at least give me 1 or 2 days a week with out playing and spend time with me. Today he told me he will not I either take him as he is or leave because he will not change anything about himself. It hurt my feelings so bad because I do nothing but think about him and do everything to make him happy. I make sure he always has clean clothes a lunch for work and stay away while he is playing and of course I try to look good for him but lately I been so depressed jus staying in bed feeling like I’m not wanted, feeling like a maid for him. Also we used to have sex almost everyday and porn is something we agreed we wouldn’t watch. And he promised me as long as he had me he didn’t need porn but i found out he has time to watch porn all the time and been looking at women on Instagram pretty much naked with a body type I will never have, he acts too tired to have sex with me anymore and gets mad when I say I want more. He thinks I overreact and always fighting him but I been doing for the last few months is trying to ask for more of him. But he takes it so wrong. We broke up over the phone today but he’s coming home from work in a few hours, I asked him to sleep on couch until he found an apartment and he agreed so fast. He says I stress him out and he deserves a life where he can do the things he enjoys. I feel he does but with a limit which is impossible for him to understand. I love this man so much I never loved anybody like this and I’m so hurt and confused .