i get so irritated when people tell me i’m going to want a second baby. my pregnancy has been so difficult on me; physically and mentally. we didn’t even want kids originally— happened in july because of some unsafe decisions & i miscarried in august. after that, we had long talks about trying for a baby within the next year because that difficult time made me want a baby. thankfully, we were able to get pregnant within 2 months of the loss—and i am so grateful for this child. but when people tell me “you’re gonna forget how bad pregnancy was” or “you’ll want another one” i want to SCREAM. i even told my MIL that her son is getting snipped right after & she insisted we would want two kids. NOPE. the only thing i’ll consider after this is adoption; which is a real possibility, but i’m just generally annoyed at the “you’ll want more” comments. rant over 🤦🏼‍♀️