Do I have to do all of that stuff in a relationship?

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I’m 19 years old..sometimes I fear that I have to do those things even though I don’t like. I know I don’t have to do anything I don’t want to do but can someone tell me if I’m alone on this or not? 
1. Do I have to have sex with my partner everyday 
2. Do I have to deepthroat?
3. Does he have to cum on my face or in my mouth?

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It depends, are you in a relationship or a porn movie? I've never let my husband 'cum' on my face, its disgusting. Anything we do in our relationship is agreed between the two of us, theres no guidelines.

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1. Pretty much nobody has sex with thier partner every single day. People have shit to do
2. It's fine if you don't deepthroat a guy, he:ll live
3. A lot of women don't want that, it's not abnormal to find it disgusting 
In all the millions of relationships out there, I'm positive that there are thousands of couples who don't do any of these and are perfectly happy

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You don't HAVE to do anything you are not comfortable with when you're in a relationship.

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You don’t have to do any of those things just because your in a relationship.

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Have to - nope!
Are some relationships dependant on a high sex drive - yep.
If mine wouldn't put out daily I'd leave him 🤷😂 
Let him know what you're comfortable with, see if you can talk compromises!

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Definitely not to any of those. You don't have to do anything or anything you're uncomfortable with. You don't have to give him a blow job or have sex with him.  Don't do things just because you feel you should.

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1. If you don't want to have sex everyday then of course not, you have sex when you want to and not just because someone wants you to.
2. You don't have to and a lot of women find it difficult to do so, if you want to try to then absolutely go for it but there's no need to.
3. If you're comfortable with it and want to try it then go for it, but plenty of women aren't okay with that and your partner should respect your boundaries.

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You don’t have to do ANYTHING you don’t want to do, your partner should be okay with what you are comfortable with and your boundaries. Most people don’t have sex everyday because people are busy. Don’t deep throat if it’s uncomfortable for you, and letting someone cum on your face seems like it’s a bigger mess than it’s worth.

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Way would you have to do any of that because you are in a relationship???
I have been with my husband 16 years and never do any of that.  Will sex if we want to. Now it hard to find time for that with having a toddler and husband works overnight.

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Ive been in a relationship for over a year and i dont do what i sont feel comfortable with. I feel sorry that you think tou have to do that sort of stuff in a relationship.  Only do what you are okay with. Have a talk with your SO, they may feel like tht with some things to. I know it happened in my realtionship. Honesty is what you need not sex.

Do I have to do all of that stuff in a relationship?

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