It hurts 😭

So I've only gotten fingered by my bf a few times before, I also never had sex before but the first time he fingered me it felt really good now it just kinda hurts but yesterday he fingered me a little then we moved on to other things, and he tried to go in me 🍆 but he did it really hard it hurt so bad 😭 I told him to be more careful 😒 btw ever since that happened when I pee it hurts now, has it happened to any of you before? Any of you know what might be wrong w me😭