It was my first time meeting my (ex) boyfriends best “homie” today. Little did I know, his homie used to bully me back in high school and would mock me infront of the whole class back in the day. They picked me up at Walgreens and they had trouble finding my location and I’m assuming his friend was upset because as I was walking up to them to say my greetings, he ignored what I had to say and acted if I wasn’t there to begin with. I thought it was best to just leave his friend alone and go to another aisle with my ex. When I noticed who he was, I asked my ex if we could take an uber home because I felt too uncomfortable going into the same car with his homie. He said no because he doesn’t have a car and he doesn’t want to spend money on lyft because it’s expensive and he doesn’t have the house keys so we just have to ride with his friend. As we exit the store, we enter his car which REEKS of weed. My (ex) boyfriend didn’t tell me that they we’re gonna do a weed run “really quick” and his homie began to drive RECKLESSLY. The driving was horrendous and his backseats didn’t have seatbelts and I was mortified that we would get in a car accident or get stopped by the police. I had an anxiety attack and was shaking due to those two thoughts. We stopped at our first location to drop off the weed which was at the MALL. Once his friend left the car to deliver the package, I started breaking down and my ex boyfriend got very upset with me and started raising his voice saying I’m gonna make a scene and I told him just to let me out so I can call an uber back home.When his friend came back, I screamed out that he was a bitch and walked away. I feel bad for calling his friend that. I don’t know what to say or do but my ex boyfriend is fully aware that I’m very uncomfortable with their “business” and he says that’s it’s only temporary and it’s side job because they make “good money”. Later on in the day, my ex called me and told me he talked with his homie about the driving and said it won’t happen again. I just think it’s flat out rude how I don’t get an apology? Very strange.Part of the reason why me and my ex broke up was because of his “business” and he fully acknowledges that I’m very upset and uncomfortable with it.

FYI: hung out with my ex because we wanted to make things work out again which it obviously didn’t go as planned. learned my lesson.