Husband going out

Hey ladies, when were you cool with letting your husband or SO go out after having a baby? This is my first, 3 1/2 weeks postpartum from a c-section. My husband returned to work pretty much right away which was great for us but now he's been out twice to the bar already, both times he told me "I won't be too late" then showing back up between 1-2 in the morning drunk. It wouldn't be such a big deal if I didn't wake up with the baby around that time. He makes it so hard to get back to sleep. Then sleeps through everything else. It drives me crazy because I need sleep too.. He plans on going out again tonight.. Picture of baby and I this morning