Let me paint a picture...my husband is from California. He's always had HOA's and people to do his yards for him. I am from the south and we've always done our own yard. We settled down and own a house in NC on an acre of land out in the sticks. Last years, there was an ongoing battle because he could never do the yard right. He would half ass it and just kind of mow the big areas and leave it be. My family used to get on to him and tell him he can't just leave 4 foot weeds up to the porch and patches in the yard and call it good. I agree. HERE'S THE KICKER: He insists on doing it. He won't let me do it and even told me he would be angry with me if I did it because he's scared of my grandparents who live next door thinking he's not being a man and doing it himself. Anyways, fast forward. Our yard has needed to be mowed for a month now. He's always coming up with an excuse on why he can't do it. Today he finally decided he would. To save time, I told him that he could mow and I could weed eat. He told me no, he wanted to do everything. Y'all. I come out of the house when he says he is done and this shit was a wreck. There were several spots that were still a foot high and there were trees with patches of weeds. I step outside and I said, "How much longer?" And he said, "I'm done." And I said, "Andrew its not done." He asked where the spots were and I started pointing them out. He proceeds to tell me that I'm being a perfectionist. I said, "I'm not being a perfectionist.. It's not done. Why half ass it? If you don't want to do it, that's fine but let me do it." He refused and started getting the missed spots and bitching. I go out there again and he was angry. I asked him what was wrong and in sum, he said that by me coming out there and immediately pointing out what was missed, I came off as entitled and boujie. My point was that he's a grown man. It's EVERY TIME he's done the yard that it's half done. Not to mention, I don't feel bad that he "busted his ass" because I would have loved to of done it and he refused. He wanted me to come out and praise him for what he did then gently point out the missed spots. But I'm like...you're a whole grown man. I should have to sugar coat and argue with you over MOWING. Be an adult and do it or let someone else do it.