How did you do it ladies?

Married , with two young kids. I have been unhappy in my marriage for quite some time (several years), but am the type to always give second chances . I have voiced my feelings and concerns many, many times over the years and my husband can’t seem to find it within himself to change. This has caused great strains on our marriage and Im reaching a point in my life that if something or someone is bringing me down on a daily, it’s gotta go, for my own well-being. I want a divorce, but he makes all the money. How do you move out with your babies , take care of them and work? It seems impossible to be a single mama, it’s absolutely terrifying