We can't get a house and it's my fault.

My husband and I have been trying to get a home. We ended up looking at a house that suits all our needs and anything we could ever want. We just waited 2 weeks for the shoe to drop. The house is listed at 129,900 and we can offer them 128,000 but they would have to pay for closing costs and fix a basement leak which puts the seller at 120,000. So now my husband and I sit here and basically added it all up he would need to work 12 of ot every week for 6 weeks to afford the down payment and that's not including the fact that it's $80 more a month than what we wanted to pay....

None of this wouldn't be an issue if I had a job. We'd be able to afford it all if I just worked. But I'm a stay at home mother and because of that we are just shy of it and I know he is blaming me for it. I am blaming myself for it also.