Ice princess physically around new partner?

I am just getting out of six month relationship based primarily on sex and physical attraction. I really tried to be and mean more to him and invested a lot of energy, into him but he knew he was moving so he wouldn’t let me in emotionally. I said goodbye and I’m assuming contact will fizzle.

I met this new guy, who treats me like a queen makes me feel beautiful, and wanted (almost too much he’s a little clingy) and prioritizes me and I feel so comfortable around him. Until he touches me. I don’t understand -I am such a sexual touchy person but for some reason I completely close off and become an ice princess I don’t want him to kiss me or anything. He is very needy sexually so idk what to do. I love giving bjs. Don’t want to give him one. Love to cuddle. Don’t want to cuddle. What weirder is I have no problems with my other casual dating partners. HELP