At first I thought it was TTC pressure but now it's all the time. He get aroused and we go and go and then all of a sudden he goes limp.

It's killing us both. I feel so bad for him because it's devestating him but selfishly it's hurting me too. He won't see a therapist because he was raised to think you don't need to share your problems, that you're the only one who can help you.

So now we're stuck in this situation where we keep trying and nothing and go to bed crying. Of course I have asked, is it me? Is it TTC? Are you not ready?

All i get are no's and he doesn't know what's going on that he thinks it's work stress related because he is so tired all the time.

How do I support him and myself at the same time?