birth control causing dryness?

somehow with all birth control pills I’ve had, I’ve always experienced dryness and it’s very frustrating during sex. no matter how into it I am, my vagina doesn’t want to cooperate, lol.

tips? tricks? cos the irritation my vag feels later is quite unpleasant

doc recommended coconut oil or olive oil for an “organic” lubrication, as others contain alcohol and other things and I have had bouts of infections so she thinks this is best. anyone try those?

just wanna enjoy sex with my man without feeling dysfunctional 😩😩