No urge to pee after delivery?

I will be 2 weeks pp tomorrow and I still don’t have much of an urge to pee :( I usually just try to use the bathroom if I feel I haven’t gone in a while but usually I can’t feel the urge to pee. When I was in the hospital I would pee my pants Because I actually had no idea I had to use the bathroom. It’s scaring me :( it’s gotten a little better since the hospital but it’s still not there. Anyone else? Also when I have to poop or I have gas, it causes excruciating pain in my perineum area and bad cramping. Is that normal? Ugh!