DILEMA. PLS HELP.

Pao ♡

Hi ladies, so I have something that I need a little advice on. So my boyfriend got me Ariana grande tour tickets back in November, the concert is next week! I live in Washington and the concert is in California.

My mom told me she wants me to sell the tickets cause she doesn’t want me going, she doesn’t want me alone with my boyfriend.

I did not sell the tickets, she told me this like about 1 1/2 months ago and I haven’t touched the subject with her since.

Our flights(my boyfriend and I) are Saturday morning. So we’d be there all Saturday, Sunday, Monday, the concert is on Tuesday and come home on Wednesday.

BUT my mom still doesn’t know, and I’m getting worried Because my boyfriend has everything ready for us. It would be the first time we travel together.

In case y’all wanna know, we have been together 4 years, we are both 20 years old.

I need help on what to tell my mom, am I wrong for wanting to go on this trip with him?

Is she wrong, well not wrong but is she being a little too overprotective?

I’m her daughter and I understand she worries and all, but I want to make this trip. Idk what her fear is? Could it be that she’s scared I’m having sex?(I’m not open with my mom about my sexual life, we never talk about this stuff)

Is it the fear of something happening to me, or idk.

I just need some help, what can I tell her? How do I get her on board?

Im not asking her for money at all just her trust and blessing so I can go and come back safe and sound.

Am I wrong for wanting this? HELP ME PLEASE 😭

I had already posted this on another group but I only got one response and I feel like I need more opinions on what to do, say etc.

Pls advise me!