Married for 5 years, together for 8. We never fight, only bicker. Lately I've had an increase in my sex drive, but... my husband's has dropped. Last weekend he made a comment about how woman who always want sex are the ones who cheat. Made me feel a little shitty since my sex drive has been super high and all I've wanted is for him to throw me on the bed and have his way with me, not the make love to me way, the fuck me so hard I cant see straight kind of sex....

Nope. Been trying for 3 weeks.... NOTHING

I feel shitty, feel like I'm not enough, not doing it for him. Trying to talk about this topic is like pulling teeth, turns into him feeling like shit and mad at me because it's somehow my fault. He's very guarded of his feelings, doesn't like talking about them at all (abusive parents, no real love ever provided until he met me.)

Well tonight, right after I painted my nails, he wants it. My nails are wet and I asked of we could move to the room so I would get nail polish on our new couches. He says no, he didn't want to do it in the room. End of story, he sits down and continues watching tv. Mind you, he's standing there rock hard and I'm already wet just thinking about what's about to happen, blue ovaries galore...

Idk what to do. How do I tell my emotionally unstable husband, I need the D more often without making him feel like shit?

Im literally sexualizing EVERYTHING! So sexually frustrated, I can't think straight anymore.

What do i do?