Help!!! Who’s right ? Him or me


So me and my husband have had a lot of problems and we both have made mistakes we talk about it and say we’re gonna do something but we never do ... the thing is he says he’s tired of me always telling him the SAME things over and over that he’s tired of me saying the same things over that that gets his annoyed... on the other had I know I have told him that but I feel like I have to repeat my self because he doesn’t do Anything.....

so do you think I should just stop saying the same things over and over ( like how I think he doesn’t love me and everything tho g he does wrong ) and just wait to see if that’s what he’s tired of and see if he does Change ,and just don’t say anything I already told him .... or should I keep saying the same things until he changes ????