Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together a year and a month, however we have known each other for 10 years! He’s 40 and I’m 30. I moved in with him last year, we are both madly in love ready to settle down with each other forever!!! I dont have any kids just a little English bulldog, same with him. So my question is........ how soon would you expect a ring? Even if it’s just a promise ring?! I guess you could say I need some “security or reassurance” were in this for the long haul it that makes sense... truthful opinions please?