I was small before getting pregnant. I have to work really hard at it and constantly watch what I eat. Well, this pregnancy has kicked my ass. Gained almost 17 pounds already at 18 weeks. I wont go to social events because I hate the way I look. I dont have that cute baby bump. 3rd baby girl and I gain the same each time. My hips, thighs and ass take a beating. Just getting wider. It makes me super upset to even think about summer. So, I ordered pregnancy spanx ofd amazon and they are AMAZING. Do I suddenly love the way I look? No. But they do a great job at holding everything in and making me feel somewhat better. Totally worth the 20 bucks!