So me and my SO are about to celebrate 1 year but there’s something that’s bothering me.

Even though he’s the first person I’ve been with sexually I will say I’ve had my fair share of make outs in the past and from what I’ve been told I’m a pretty good kisser.

Now I should also point out that me and my SO don’t use tongues... for some reason we didn’t at the start and about 4 months into our relationship I asked him about it. He said he thought I didn’t like it so he didn’t do it and tbh I thought the same about him. We tried for about a week but agreed it was a bit awkward. Since then I think we’ve done it twice when drunk but idk... part of me thinks it’s weird that we’ve been together so long and we don’t do it...

I’ll admit I got awkward every time just because I feel like I’ve forgotten how I used to kiss. Idk I was just wondering if anyone had any advice cause I’d like to try doing it again