Should I fake an orgasm?

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Me and my boyfriend were in my room, we were both horny so... we started fuck, but he came really fast so after that he started fingering me, but I asked him to masturbate me while watching a porn video (never did that before).
He never made me cum from clitoris, just from sexual intercuse, so I wanted try that.
He started that and it was ok, but he was really slow, so he stopped and I helped him, 5 minutes after I was about to cum and i told him "ok your turn, i am about to cum" so he masturbate me even too hard and I couldnt cum bc i wasn't doing in the right way. So i told him "wait let me do it" ... he got mad and left the room and went back to his home.
I didn't mean to say it like "oh you dont know hot to make me cum" or something lile that, but i didn't want tp fake an orgasm neither. Now he is angry with me and I don't know what to do...

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I never fake it, when my husband asks if I do then I give him the absolute truth. It might seem like a small fib but he needs to know the truth at all times. And then some other times I cum multiple times and get a little embarrassed to tell him but he loves it. Anyways i think it should be a turn on when we do it ourselves and we show them just what we want to make us cum. Good luck girly!

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Sounds like he got embarrassed but treating you like shit is ridiculous. You asked for what you needed and it's actually really brave of you!
Some woman will fake an orgasm for YEARS before they spill the beans. I mean, if you weren't doing something that was sexually pleasing he would tell you so he could cum right? I would just go about your business. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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I feel like we always give them what they need to cum and they never give us what need to cum. You didn’t do nothing wrong just talk with him about it when he calm down it’s just a missed communication

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Don’t fake your orgasms. That’s sacrificing a medium rare fillet mignon for a microwave Salisbury. 
To me, it sounds like both of you are a little young. He sounds like he is insecure. 
My advice is to show each other what you like.
What I mean by that is to guide each other. 
Let him finger you, but put your hand over his. Tell him how many fingers and move it for him until you know he can continue doing it until you finish. Show him how to rub your clit the way you like. Guide him to do it the way you like.
Let him show you how he likes to be jerked in a similar way.
Whatever you do, don’t fake your orgasms.

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What I do is use his hand but I guide. I cum every time🤷🏻‍♀️ because when he does it, it’s to rough or just doesn’t feel the same so I help him.

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He needs to listen to you and your body so he can do what YOU LIKE. If he can’t learn what you like then he’s not the one and just wants to get off. If that’s the case then he’s a boy not a man

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I grab my husbands finger or thumb and direct him and I’ll even tell him if he is going too hard. He never complained or got mad. Maybe direct him instead of just doing it yourself. I think he was more mad that he didn’t know how to please you.

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I think he needs to grow up

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Don’t fake it. Tell them when their shit is weak ( just be nice about it🤷🏼‍♀️). Your body and your pleasure IS IMPORTANT. Don’t go without because a man is to proud to listen and take constructive criticism to make things better. He’s being childish

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