So basically my boyfriend and I have not been intimate in over 2 months. This has been a major issue for me bc he hadn’t bothered to explain why.

Logically, I assume there is more going on.

Long story short, due to a major lack of communication we almost broke things off permanently.

Come to find out, our lack of intimacy has been due to him feeling extremely weirded out by the fact that out little one is harbored inside me and he feels like he’s poking the little guy or something.

I kind of understand where he’s coming from, but at the same time I’ve explained that it’s completely safe for the baby and he’s truly not going “poke” him.

Still... we have not been intimate.

I’m still in my feelings about the situation because at the end of the day everyone has their needs and tbh I’m a very sexual person. I need that physical attention to feel more connected to him.

Have any of you ladies experienced this as well?

I don’t know how to go about bringing the issue up again bc I don’t want him to feel I’m being insensitive (if this is truly that big of an issue for him) as well as not wanting him to feel some type of way towards me for trying to force something on him that he’s not comfortable with. 🙄