Husband constantly says I’m lazy..

I don’t know what to do anymore. He says I’m lazy for not cleaning but all I do is leave his stuff and he says I’m the mess and that it’s not all his. Do I wear boxers? No. I just want him to see that it’s not me it’s him but I have no idea how. I used to clean up everything and I stopped cleaning his stuff so he would see it’s his not mine and now he’s saying I’m a mess and that it’s not his when it clearly is. He says he never gets a day off but neither do I, so what’s the difference? Just because I’m the wife I have to slave over you while you get to play video games? It’s not fair. I just don’t know what to do.