Break the pacifier

My daughter will be 2 in a month. She just cried for 3 hours non stop over the pacifier because we tried cold turkey. Her father and i are no longer together he says she doesn’t take it at his house he lies ALOT but for some reason i believe him it’s just when she seems me she expects to have it. I have tried EVERYTHING. I cut holes in the tops and she cried just as hard saying “it’s broke i want another one”. Any suggestions? I have to go to work in the morning so if this 3 hours was for nap time (which she only slept for 30min then woke up crying for it again saying “binkie please mommy” grabbing my face. I feel so guilty. i can’t imagine how it’s gonna be tonight for bedtime. And i don’t want to hear anything from parents who kids wasn’t on it ONLY ADVICE FROM PEOPLE WHO HAVE EXPERIENCE WITH THIS.