Too tight?

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I can never get anything inside my vagina without it hurting loads and I’ve never done vaginal sex or fingered myself there, I can’t even get one finger in without it stinging and feeling uncomfortable
I feel like I do get aroused but if I’m not getting aroused enough I don’t even know how to? It’s so annoying help!

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same thing with me. i’d go to the gynecologist and he/she will do an exam and let you know if it’s just a larger than usual hymen or if something is wrong anatomically. 
some people, like myself, just have tighter vaginas and they need time/practice to stretch out 😬

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I just did this recently for the first time, and I’m 19. I thought there was something wrong with me. Come to find out I was just going at it at the wrong angle. First tip, be wet. Very wet. And maybe even lick your finger. I used my pinky the first time, cause I didn’t know if I could penetrate myself with a bigger finger. The key, for me was its easier to penetrate on the left side of my vaginal canal? If that makes sense. Also, BREATHE. I did this laying on my stomach, cause that’s how I was most relaxed. I’m sure you’re okay, just gotta explore and poke around down there. I’m sure you’ll get it. If not, definitely recommend a trip to the doctors.

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I was the same way. You just have to work up to it. It’s gonna hurt but once your hymen breaks, it’s not as bad (at least in my experience)

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Oh for goodness sake. There’s no such thing as too tight, or too loose... pussies are supposed to push our kids so I doubt whatever you stick in yourself won’t be too big lmao

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Same problem. I was eventually diagnosed with too tight muscles and I believe it was from anxiety (I was afraid of having sex.). 
But while they were doing tests and all they said it could be for a number of reasons including nerve issues (which would’ve required surgery) or as someone else said, incorrect anatomy or lubrication not working right.
I’m better now than I was years ago, but it’s not perfect. Go to the doctors. The sooner you find out the issue, the BETTER