Do you ever just feel like an absolute idiot while TTC?

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I just feel stupid. We have been TTC for one month and I act like its been taking us years. On top of that I can never wait to test so I spend the money we don't have on a million tests all because I can't wait.
And to top it off I drive myself CRAZY with symptom spotting and it makes my anxiety go super high and I'm pretty 90% of it is in my head.

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You can never wait to test but you’ve only been trying a month?

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No judgements here! I was like this on our first cycle, I think its just the excitement and the idea of pregnancy and “soon” after a baby. I know its easier said then done for some people but just remember to actually enjoy the ride! It’s a new step in life with your S/O, enjoy and be excited about that too! Good luck and baby dust!

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Stressing too early is my biggest mistake in ttc. Now, after 18 months, still nothing. Once you start stressing, it will be really hard to stop so just give yourselves some time to enjoy. At least a year.

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Well calm down girl you’re literally just burning up money for no reason and especially if you don’t have money to burn that’s really a bad decision. You’ve been TTC for one cycle only it can take up to 12 cycles for healthy couples to conceive.

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Doing what you’re doing is just going to make it take way longer than it probably would if you just relaxed

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Wait and see how much you’ve spent on testing after a year+