My so cheated last year.. I’ve always been the type of person who would want to know but I’ve also heard of women who wished they never knew and I could never understand why...

When my husband cheated and confessed, I thought I was going to die of pain but was thankful that he did.. only problem is as months went on I realized he confessed to get it out of his chest and not because he really cared about my feelings, he wanted to clear his conscious to he can sleep at night but left me devastated.

Then after he confessed he went back and fourth, audacity to say he wasn’t sure if he wanted me or her. I tried so hard to be a good wife and he just treated me worse until I left him. Now he wants me back..

With all I have been through, I wished he just went on with his life instead of confessing. He put me through so much hell for absolutely nothing. The positive thing I can think of that came out of this, is me becoming a strong person..

Anyway just a little rant. Ladies if you cheat and have no remorse please just leave the poor guy alone instead of confessing just to clear yourself .. it’s the worse