Relationship Getting too.. Comfortable ?

Question

Hi everyone I know that in a relationship you eventually get pretty comfortable and used to each other doing even gross things.. farting, pooping in front of each other etc... but recently I’ve felt like I’m not as attractive to my man as I used to be.. I’ve gained some weight since then, but he does love my thighs and bigger butt and bigger boobs but I feel like maybe that might be one of the reasons? It isn’t HIS fault making me feel less attractive or anything but more of me thinking it to myself. I feel like we love each other for sure.. but I just re read old letters and notes and I feel like we were MORE in love back then.. but then again that’s the “honey moon in love stage” (we aren’t married yet, that’s just what I’m referring to it as) 
   My question to you all is.. did you ever go through a stage of maybe feeling too comfortable or not as attractive to your man as you used to be?

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I went through a stage like that,  but I've been with my guy for almost 15 years now. You just have to put forth effort and keep an open conversation.  Let him know how you're feeling so he can reassure you,  and vice versa.  Go out and do new things together.

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That’s pretty normal. Do things together. Dates or doing something at home together other than watching tv

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Every relationship gets static after a while if you don’t put effort into keeping the honey moon phase alive. Things are always going to die out after a while, but what’s important is falling in love with your spouse over and over again every day. Schedule date nights and make sure you stick to the schedule to keep things interesting. I love the “222” rule. Every 2 weeks, date night. Every 2 months, mini-vacay (like some place an hour away). Every 2 years, big trip. This obviously only works if y’all have a decent amount of money, but you can still stick to the date nights every 2 weeks if you make them cheap. Never stop dating your spouse. But it happens to everyone, and y’all can work through this!

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Not married but I’ve been with my boyfriend (now fiancé) for almost a year. I’ve also gained some weight and I don’t put as much effort into my looks anymore. I’m bigger now than I’ve ever been. 
He always says I’m beautiful and wonderful but yet I always feel like a burden and just bleh. 
He makes an effort to always show that he loves me thou.

Relationship Getting too.. Comfortable ?

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