For the past 2 months I haven’t been able to reach orgasm when I’m having sex with my husband. Usually I’ll cum clitorly I’ve never had a vaginal orgasm before. So in order to deal with my sexually desires i use a vibrator. I wonder can that cause my clit to not be as sensitive as it used to be because of the vibration? Anyways also my husband ALWAYS cums within 10 minutes or less and he doesnt really care if I cum or not. I feel like that is selfish of him as he is my husband and it is one of his duties to please me not only me pleasing myself all the time to get off. I understand he’s tired he works two jobs but I feel like we shouldn’t just have sex just to feel good and boom be done it should be the time where we feel the closest and can enjoy the connection with each other And I hate it how he’s always making me feel rushed like asking me if I’m about to come like NO!! the more he keeps asking me the more turned off or side tracked I get. It’s so annoying I know I’m kind of all over the place with this paragraph but I just need to vent a little.