Am i too overprotective?

In 2017 i lost my boyfriend to a car accident, he fell asleep behind the wheel and ran off of the road and hit several trees and he passed away on impact. I started dating my current boyfriend March 20th, tonight he was driving home and he ALWAYS texts me when he gets home, but tonight he didn’t, and i got worried. 😓 I texted him and he didn’t reply and so I called him he lives with a friend atm and so we can’t really talk otp. And he got mad because i was 😟 worried. And told me i need to “chill”. Just because he’s been in several incidents and near death experiences he thinks he’s indestructible. I just I get worried and i feel like maybe im too overprotective. 💔