Will my feelings pass?

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I’ve suffered from previous miscarriages and I can’t connect with the fact that I’m having a baby, it’s a weird feeling because everyone I have told is excited and I’m constantly worried, i really hope this passes.

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I think so. I also have had previous miscarriages and it took me a while to start getting excited about this one. I keep waiting for the news that I’ve lost this one, too. But for me, slowly I’m getting more excited. Every milestone we pass gives me a little more hope and with hope, joy.

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I’m 15 weeks with our rainbow baby and I’m JUST starting to get genuinely excited about it. I felt so detached and removed from my pregnancy in the beginning because of the baby we lost last year. So my husband and I have made it a point to talk about what our hopes and dreams are for our baby and buy baby stuff for our new baby. It helps me visualize the reality of the future. Also, getting my baby bump has helped. I’m getting a little bump and I LOVE IT. Give it time, make it a priority to nurture your bond, and it’ll come gradually over time. Give yourself grace. 🌻 Happy Mother’s Day.

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I will be 15w this week and I'm still paranoid  I feel like I want an ultrasound  every week just to make sure then I tell myself to just relax

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There were days in my last pregnancy (after 2 miscarriages and an adoption that fell through) that I was excited and started to connect a little. But to be honest it wasn't until after my baby was born and in my arms for a few days that I finally felt like I could "breathe" again.

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It wasn’t until after the first 10 week ultrasound that it hit me I was really pregnant . Hang in there !!

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Im currently 13 weeks pregnant, had my gender reveal yesterday and found out I’m having a little girl. After having two recurrent miscarriages with no live children, I’ve found it very difficult to connect with the baby. I feel like everyone around me is much more excited than I am, and it’s really depressing. I’ve been thinking about seeking help and talking to someone. I know it’s in God’s hands, but the feeling of not knowing if I’ll get to take a baby home is excruciating. I check babies heartbeat every other day on my home Doppler and that helps me get through the week. I also have a wonderful OB that scans me every two weeks to make sure baby is still doing good.

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I miscarried the month before I got pregnant with this baby. I have a healthy almost 2 year old and never had any problems. It has stolen the joy of this pregnancy honestly. I keep thinking if I announce something will happen or if I buy something something will happen. But I’m 14 weeks now and I find out what this baby is Tuesday. I have been feeling flutters on and off and my stomachs getting bigger which eases my mind. I announced last week and it honestly helped to get it out there and celebrate this baby finally! I finally made my first purchase as well— a rainbow swaddle. ❤️ praying for you!

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I'm 15 weeks pregnant and love my baby so much, but still feel weird talking about his arrival as if it's a sure thing. I keep saying things in an "if" way, which I know I need to stop thinking that way. Our families keep wanting to buy us things, but the only thing I've bought is a onesie that we used to announce. I just feel scared that something will happen and we will have all the stuff. I felt better after finally putting it out to the whole world on social media at 14 weeks, but still worry. I don't think the feeling will ever go away for me, until there is an actual baby in my arms.

Will my feelings pass?

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