So my husband and I have been trying for three years to have a baby and have been unsuccessful so since he is reaching his 40,s we have decided that we will try for another three years to have our first kid together as much as it hurt to agree with him I feel it is best for us both since every time a test comes back negative I cry and become somewhat depressed. I wish there was another way to have this baby we both long for but I don’t foresee that happy but I still have hope that we will have our child before the three year mark.